Embarrassing Penis Stories: The Aftermath

I'm sure we've all heard some pretty embarrassing stories about some guy who had a penis malfunction or bad disposition with a potential partner. It's usually a bad situation all the way around for the story-teller, the subject, and the listeners. Yes, even the listeners, some mental picture we can all do without. While we are all laughing and talking about this guy and his miserable circumstance, what's he going through?

The initial embarrassment came within the moment. No matter if the penis was touched, seen, or felt, the embarrassment set in once the guy's partner made it very clear that it was inadequate in some form or fashion. That's a huge and immediate blow to any Man's ego, confidence, pride, etc. Then, there's that awkward span of time where the intimacy abruptly comes to a halt and everyone realizes that something very uncomfortable is about to take place in the near future. Lies will be told, even though feelings will be hurt regardless. One of which will be a pledge to confidentiality which will be broken as soon as the potential partner walks out or walks him out.

Everyone must know! When an opportunity presents itself for someone to tell an embarrassing, funny story at someone else's expense, most of us spring into action. All the closest friends are contacted, via phone or media. No details are spared. But, after the end of the testimonial everyone always says "Don't tell anyone I told you." What a waste of words. The friends typically carry the torch to another, then another, and then more others. Before the story loses steam, half of a city knows about this guy's penis. So what happens when this guy is spotted out in public, immediate laughter? You're absolutely right! I mean groups of people all so amused that they can't contain it. All the while this guy is internal torn because he now knows that everyone knows. Although the laughter will eventually stop, no one will forget.

Now this guy has to compensate for what he lacks in the penis department. The undertone to most guys' confidence level is very synonymous with his sexual abilities, whether that is in size or capabilities. So if he doesn't have that, this guy has to have something equally appealing to the masses to compensate. Out of pure shame, now this guy is virtually forced to accumulate lots of money and material things or acquire a lot of power and respect through other means. This will all be transparent to others, no matter how much this guy tries to disguise it. His entire existence will be filled with shame and inadequacy until he feels as though he has balanced his sexual inadequacy with other things.

Every time this guy gets ready to have sex he will be overwhelmed with anxiety. Now that his condition has been made public, he's going to always assume that just because he was inadequate for that partner and everyone who heard about him, that there isn't one person that he is sexually good enough for or compatible with. He may prolong the intimacy or try to overcompensate sexually with extended foreplay stimulation. This is the only way he'll feel that he can please his partner.

But what's really sad is, all this guy had to do was fix the penis problem FIRST, then pursue a mate. A lot can be learned about oneself when time away from intimacy is taken. Maybe he didn't realize he could have avoided all that shame and embarrassment so easily. He'll never get a second chance to make a first impression.

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